By Otto CollinsKenneth cannot stand the “dating game.” He dislikes loud clubs and bars and is not a partyer. He really hates it when his well-intentioned friends set him up on dates. Many of the women are nice, but the vast majority of them are not what he’s looking for.At the same time, Kenneth really doesn’t enjoy being single. He gets lonely. He craves having a woman who means the world to him and with whom he can spend his life.He often tells friends that he wishes he could skip over the whole dating thing and just find his perfect soulmate…without all of the hassle, drama and rejections too.Like Kenneth, you might strongly dislike dating and feeling like you have to impress women so that they’ll want to date and eventua breast enhancement lly be in a relationship with you. You may also wish that you could bypass the possibility of hearing a string “No thanks” to your invitations for dates.Or, it might be that you’re a busy guy. You want the companionship and passion of having a committed partner, but you yearn for a way to have what you want without wasting a bunch of time (that you don’t have) going out with potential partners who just aren’t a good match for you.The good news is this…You don’t have to be alone (unless you want to) and dating doesn’t have to be uncomfortable, annoying or emotionally painful. Figure out what you like and what you DO want.It can be helpful to know what you hate, but be sure to spend some time getting clear about what you like.