The beginning of a relationship with a CP (commitment-phobic person) can be escalating (to say the least!) The CP chases you with such intense and total admiration that we begin to feel just so damned good about OURSELVES that we are actually floating on air! This euphoric stage sets the scene for the devastating ‘crash’ that is bound celebrity gossip to happen. Unfortunately, when we feel so euphoric by the actions of the CP in the ‘pursuing stage’ we tend to see the CP as Omni-important. The more power we give them, the harder we fall. When we give the CP this power over us, we may react in two adverse ways when evidence of their commitmentphobia surfaces… celebrity news 1. The CP pulls away or withdraws from us, making us ‘CRASH’: When the CP pulls away from us we become frantic, wondering what we did wrong. So, celeb gossip we try even harder to prove our worthiness in order to gain back their love and admiration. 2. We become the ‘enabler’: We make up excuses for the CP, entertainment news live in denial, or take direct blame for their withdrawal from us. We do not hold the CP accountable for their actions, but instead we try to hide the reality of their actions from ourselves. We refuse to hear the CP when they tell us to ‘go away’, choosing, instead, to focus only on their ‘come here’ celeb gossip statements or actions. We make up excuses for the CPs behavior, absolving the CP from all responsibility! We become addicted to our CPs. We are now CP Addicts. The harder the CP Addict tries to recall, or recover, that ‘euphoric rush’ they experienced in the beginning stage of the relationship, the more likely they ‘fail’ and feel defeated.